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Sundown
10-08-2005, 06:00 PM
After reading and re-reading the "to use or not to use" thread, I was reminded of a moment in time that was very near and dear to my heart, and of course, involved a Spyderco.

Years ago (1998), My grandfather, having looked at my knife collection (mostly Spydies and BM's) decided to get me a "good knife" for Christmas. He told me he had seen enough ugly knives of mine, felt sorry for me, and wanted to get me a "real" knife. The knife he gave me was a Case slipjoint.
Of course I told my grandfather how much I loved it, which I'm sure he appreciated, and thanked him for it.

Now, my grandfather was a big man (6'3", 235) in more ways than one. He was a retired Pan Am pilot (Captain), a WWII, Army-Aircorps bomber pilot, and the most honorable man I ever knew. He was used to working (had grown up on a farm in Washington), and spent every day of his life after retiring out in the yard, out hunting, or working at his other trade, carpenrty.

I had tried to explain to him just how functional the "ugly knives" (Spyderco's) were. He just didn't get it. He was set in his ways. I figured the only thing I could do was to get him one. However, I realized that I'd also have to get him to use it. That would be the really hard part.

For his birthday, I gave him a Spyderco SS Hunter, which I had his name engraved on. He looked puzzled when I gave it to him, which was kinda the reaction I had expected. He thanked me, but asked me why it weighed so much. I told him that he have to use it to find out. ;) I told him that this knife was not to become a paper-weight on his desk, that he must actually use it.

My grandfather asked me what the heck the piece of steel was attached to the scale of the knife, and of course, I explained it to him. He was concerned that there was a hole in his blade, too. I explained that one as well.

I remember seeing the look in my grandfather's eyes after a day of working in the yard and in his shop. It was a look of pure amazement. I could tell he had finally "got it". He told me that this knife was the best one he had ever had, and from that day forward, I could see the clip of his Hunter showing outside his pants pocket. He was never without it. His slipjoints now decorated his desk.

Sadly, my grandfather died just days after his next birthday (80 yrs. old). I will never forget the look on his face, this man who had used tools all of his life, when he finally understood my appreciation (and his own) for that "ugly knife". One of my fondest memories. :) :spyder:

Best wishes,
Sundown

Mariner
10-08-2005, 06:03 PM
What a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing the memory.

5150
10-08-2005, 06:31 PM
i myself have a great respect for such older people. they posess a class and charm that younger people of this generation would do well to learn from.
sorry for your loss and thanks for the story.(i presented my own aged father with a ss pro-grip about a year ago and he appreciates it also.) :)

WORKER#9
10-08-2005, 06:42 PM
Touching. Thanks for sharing that sundown, I gave my father a DODO a while back and he loves it, its a radical change from the knives he use to carry. he also gets it now.

CopilotATS-55
10-08-2005, 06:47 PM
it was the other way around for me dad carried alot of :spyder:cos ithought at first they were odd

ront
10-08-2005, 07:03 PM
Thanks for sharing that story with us!! What ever happened to that knife you gave your grandfather? I agree with what 5150 said. We can learn alot from the older folks around us!

Ron

ghostrider
10-08-2005, 07:48 PM
Great story Sundown, thanks for sharing it. Sadly, my father isn't the type to cary something like a Spyderco. He carries a SAK. If I gave him a Spyderco, it would probably go in the glove box, alongside the Gerber multitool I gave him.

JD Spydo
10-08-2005, 08:14 PM
That story just about brought me to tears. I too have an immense amount of respect for people of that generation. They really had a lot of Character. That is so neat that he was open minded enough to appreciate what you did for him. It's a shame we are seeing these old World War II vets are getting to the age to where they are passing on. They were really a special, rugged generation of folks we can learn a lot from. That was just so cool. Nothing else needs to be said. ;) :spyder:

Jimd
10-08-2005, 08:25 PM
Great story, Sundown, I enjoyed it.

Andyjd
10-08-2005, 08:31 PM
Fantastic story, wish i had discovered spyderco when my Grandparents were alive, they both carried pen knifes and i know they would have appreciated a Spyderco.

2edgesword
10-08-2005, 09:08 PM
Sundown

Thanks for sharing this wonderful story with us.

jaislandboy
10-08-2005, 09:21 PM
Great story Sundown, my rationale for using most of my spyders is that "you can't take them with you" when you're 6 feet under! :eek: :)

Tank
10-08-2005, 10:22 PM
Great story. Thank you for sharing.

Sundown
10-08-2005, 10:30 PM
Thanks for sharing that story with us!! What ever happened to that knife you gave your grandfather? I agree with what 5150 said. We can learn alot from the older folks around us!

Ron

It now resides with me. One Spyder that will never leave my family. I don't even consider it part of my collection. Its more like a part of me (and grandpa).


Thank you all for the warm sentiments. 5150 and ront, you are absolutely right about that generation. They were our modern day heros! :)

Best wishes,
Sundown

ront
10-08-2005, 10:46 PM
"It now resides with me. One Spyder that will never leave my family. I don't even consider it part of my collection. Its more like a part of me (and grandpa)".

Very cool, I was hoping that was going to be your answer!! I think I would cherish that knife above all others :) !

Ron

Mr Blonde
10-09-2005, 03:46 AM
Great story, thanks for sharing.

Wouter

greencobra
10-09-2005, 05:33 AM
Yeah, it was a very good story. Enjoyed it. I never knew either of my Grand Dads, both passed on long before I came into being. Makes me envious on what I missed.

Chris_H
10-09-2005, 05:36 AM
Great story -- he knew something about knives before he got that :spyder: from you. I hope you use that Case from him every once in a while, and then put it next to that SS Hunter when you're done with it.

I carry a 3-blade Sowbelly with me along with my Spyders -- old & new always together.

Piet.S
10-09-2005, 07:01 AM
Thanks Sundown, touching story. I still have my fathers last knife, seriously used and scratched. There is even mud on it. It reminds me so strong of how he did things his way.

sal
10-09-2005, 08:33 AM
Thanx much Sundown.

sal

VWTattoo
10-09-2005, 08:57 AM
Thanks for the great story regarding your grandfather, Sundown- I was hoping, mid-story, that you would eventually get him to see the brilliance of a Spyderco knife, and so I was very pleased that you taught an "old dog a new trick." (No disrespect meant- that's what I would have told my grandfather when I gave him a Spydie, if I had the chance, as he was a funny and sharp-witted man, also a WWII vet in the Air Corps/Force.)
Yeah, this sure is a thead that makes me remember my grandfather, and I wanted to say thanks for that, too! Man, I miss him...

Anyway, I wish that there were more stories like this in the Forum, because they are so great to read, and they always make me Spydie-Patriotic as well!
Kudo's, Sundown; Thanks for taking the time to share!!

Stevie Ray
10-09-2005, 09:04 AM
Great story. Thanks for sharing it.

Lost Jaguar
10-09-2005, 09:36 AM
A wonderful and touching story. My dad was one of that generation, drafted months before Pearl Harbor, a "90 day wonder," he became a platoon leader in the infantry, and participated in at least seven amphibious landings in the Pacific theater. I wish I could give him one of my Spydercos, just as I wish I could ask him for advice and opinion in these challenging times. He died in 1995, and I miss him every day.

redhawk44p
10-09-2005, 09:40 AM
Very nice story. I am a grandfather with 7 grandsons. I will give them all spydies as they get older and hopefully some good memories.

spydutch
10-09-2005, 12:01 PM
Very nice story Sundpown, thanks for sharing :cool:

Sorry for your loss.

I still see my grandpa doing everything with his (t)rusty old Herder slipjoint.

He died about 15 years ago.. Still miss him. He too was a true caracter..

idj
10-09-2005, 01:02 PM
Thanks for sharing that story, Sundown. It sounds like you love, and miss, your Grandfather very much. He must have been a special person, and I'm sorry for your loss. God bless!

dialex
10-09-2005, 05:08 PM
Great story, thanks for sharing.

boxer93
10-09-2005, 05:47 PM
Sundown,
Great story.
Chris

Sundown
10-09-2005, 06:17 PM
Thanx much Sundown.

sal

It is I who should be thanking you, sir. Thank you for building a knife that impressed even my grandfather, the toughest of critics. :)

Best wishes,
Sundown

Sundown
10-09-2005, 06:18 PM
Thanks for sharing that story, Sundown. It sounds like you love, and miss, your Grandfather very much. He must have been a special person, and I'm sorry for your loss. God bless!

Thank you for the kind words! :) He was indeed the greatest man I ever knew.

God bless,
Sundown

Sundown
10-09-2005, 06:21 PM
Great story -- he knew something about knives before he got that :spyder: from you. I hope you use that Case from him every once in a while, and then put it next to that SS Hunter when you're done with it.

I carry a 3-blade Sowbelly with me along with my Spyders -- old & new always together.

Yes, the Case does come out every once in a while. I love it for what it represents to me, even if it can't touch a Spyderco as far as pure performance goes.

Best wishes,
Sundown

Sundown
10-09-2005, 06:27 PM
Thank you, guys, for the very kind words. I appreciate all of them. :)

Best wishes,
Sundown